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2009-11-24T16:11:47
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bestfriends being ripped apart by a girl
hey has anyone had this problem coz im going through as i feel like im losing my best friend due to his new gfany helpx
http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/mbradio1/F2675891?thread=5447636&latest=1#p63413121
2008-05-13T13:52:38
Surgery topic closing
HelloFollowing on from the post last week we are closing The Surgery topic today. Thank you for all your contributions to the board. You can continue to share your experiences on topics related to the radio show by leaving comments on the relevant article pages of the Surgery site, here: www.bbc.co.uk/surgery or by calling the Surgery freephone number 0800 110 100.Radio 1 Webteam
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2008-05-13T13:47:43
Last day - RIP The Surgery
A fond farewell to everyone on here.
It's been great chatting to you all over the years.Hope to see as many people as possible over on Jez's new site.In the meantime, let's try and have a good last day on here.
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2008-05-13T13:42:31
Job
I work in the civil service, in one of the most messed up, difficult departments to work in. We do get clients screaming down the phone at us cos we cant answer their query or we dont have enough control of the computer system. Most people who phone up are okay & are willing to work with me to get it sorted. But recently I've had a few horrible, nasty people and sometimes I dread picking up the phone. Today after I came off the phone, I had to take myself off for 10 mins to calm down. I was so angry and felt bad about myself cos of the way the person in question had spoken to me.It just seems like I've spent so long working on my confidence and building myself up for me to get knocked down again. I dont wanna fade back into the painfully shy person I used to be. Its easy to say ignore it or dont listen to them but I do.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/mbradio1/F2675891?thread=5445250&latest=1#p63407922
2008-05-13T12:46:16
Does bodysize matter
Hey everyone.Just wondered if it really is true that large loveable ladies like me will be overlooked for slimmer girls.:-d
http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/mbradio1/F2675891?thread=5313173&latest=1#p63407909
2008-05-13T12:45:59
Ex tries to make me jealous while dj-ing
I run my own night twice a month in my hometown. I get on with all the staff and bouncers and all the djs are well looked after.About 6months ago a girl came up to the booth and dropped me her number, i told id call her if she gave me a kiss and things went from there.We became besotted with eachother and started seeing each other. About two months i was offered work out in corfu and was over the moon to get residensey out there.When i told Kate however she went bezurke and walked out on me.The following weekend she turned up with another guy while i was djing and started putting on a performance in front of the decks...all night.since my job in corfu fell through and kate comes to taunt me every time i dj...its the only good undergroud house scene in our town so iv got knowwhere else to go and i dont know what to do its really begginning to affect my set....Any ideas?....
http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/mbradio1/F2675891?thread=5431852&latest=1#p63407409
2008-05-13T12:38:17
should i???
hey guys im in college where i see this girl who i have a crush on and the other night we went out me,her and my two mates which i found out they all know each other but they kept saying to me ask her out but ill somwhat scared on what she might sayany help??x
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2008-05-13T12:00:47
What should i do?
When i was in college a few years ago i met a lad that was doing the plumbing course. We went out on a date then decided to start having a relationship, things progressed very quickly but we were happy. Then after about 4 months he changed, started going the pub every night, moaned that he had to come and c me (he drove i didnt, and it wasnt exactly walking distance)... so then he just never came a;so made excuses that he had snooker or something. So i ended it, n then after that we decided to give it a few more goes (3 to be exact) so then after that i decided that i wasnt being messed around any more. We stopped talking for a year but started talking a month ago, he says that hes changed and that he wants to settle down now. So weve been out on a few dates hes been to mine and vica versa, i can see a difference but my mates keep calling me mad saying that he will only hurt me again.What do you think i should do? Help me please. xx
http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/mbradio1/F2675891?thread=5358103&latest=1#p63402941
2008-05-13T11:36:00
The Surgery topic will be closing on 13 May
On Tuesday 13 May The Surgery topic of the Radio 1 message board will be closing.
After a review, our view is that that we do not have the level of resource needed to serve the audience on a board that often deals with subjects of a very sensitive nature.
Providing a high level of audience interaction will remain important to The Surgery and it will continue to welcome listeners to phone, text
or email into the show. These remain the most popular and engaging ways in which the audience can communicate with the programme.In the last 12 months Radio 1 and BBC Switch relaunched The Surgery advice site and listeners can continue to share their experiences on topics related to the radio show by leaving comments
on the relevant article pages of the Surgery site, here: http://www.bbc.co.uk/surgery/
or by calling the Surgery freephone number 0800 110 100.If you need further help or advice, a number of alternative
help sites and help lines can also be found on The Surgery site here :
http://www.bbc.co.uk/surgery/helplines/
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2008-05-13T11:04:23
The Surgery message board will be closing, But don't worry as you can try this other site.
Hey guys, as you know this place will be shutting down so I have come up with a new place for us at www.onelifeboard.com Do tell others were we have moved to. I hope we can try and keep the same people from the old board. Many of you have joined the new place and I hope the rest of you will come over to it as well. On Tuesday 13 May the Surgery topic of the Radio 1 message board will be closing. So get real to move to the board at www.onelifeboard.comKind Regards
Jez**BBC / Mods please do not remove this post; I will not post any other links to my site apart from this topic. If you’re not happy with it please can you contact me and tell me why***
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2008-05-13T10:36:32
Just asking - may sound odd but..
Hi all, this may well sound of a odd thing to ask but when you text or other half be that a guy or a woman do you normally put I
love you at the end or loads of kisses or not normal just sometimes. Also do you think you can see too much of someone?
If so how do people cope when they are married as surely they would see each other all the time well every day anyway.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/mbradio1/F2675891?thread=5415222&latest=1#p63384477
2008-05-12T20:23:39
when to cut your losses ?
I'm just wondering about when is the time to realise someone is a former friend ? To cut a long story short, I ran into a former school friend earlier this week.
I hadn't seen him for several years as he had been ill and my Mum knows his Mum and was told that he didn't want people to know he had been depressed.
That was my understanding, so I left him be.
Anyway earlier in the week I saw him in the street and said he'd be more than welcome to come for a drink with people from school who still meet. He said : 'I've got some mates at college and i've moved on.'
That was really blunt I felt.
Anyway, it seems in this instance I made the correct decision to let go.
I get the impression people moving on is common.
It's happened with a few other people from school - no real contact from them, so all I can assume is that they moved on as well.
This is not the case with others as the friendship has continued.
Since leaving university I'm pretty sure I have made the right decision to cut contact with several people.
They moved to London and there was no word from them and when I sent them messages - no reply.
Not sure what else I could have done really.
It's sad, but I don't think i'll be seeing them again even though we got on well - it seems they have moved on. On a positive note I have made more friends since leaving university, but I want to keep as many friends from university as possible as I met some good people.
fortuantely I do hear from some, but most not really, although I get a good response.
However, with some others I am getting the impression I may have to start looking at them in the past tense.
I think this is a case of that's life - I know quite a few people don't hear too much from friends they had at university, so I know it's not just me.
I get the impression contact is more from people in closer proximity to you - people have separate lives now.
Is it just a case of having to accept it's over withsome people
? I think I'm starting to form an idea of who I'm pretty sure wants to continue the friendship, those I put the effort in with mainly(but get a good response from) and those who I'd rather not lose touch with, but think I may have to as they don't seem to reply to things.Any advice/thoughts ? I would like to try and keep in touch with as many friends as possible, but may have to accept it's over with some and that they don't want to continue being friends.
It feels personal, but guess I have to look at the positives that some have stayed in touch and that I have made new friends
http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/mbradio1/F2675891?thread=5431856&latest=1#p63381521
2008-05-12T19:21:45
PETITION - messageboard to STAY
Just as the title suggests, heres a petition for the surgery boards to stay, if not, where else would we discuss our problems? the ''making music'' room? or the 'chart/djs' room? lol STAY MESSAGEBOARDS!
http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/mbradio1/F2675891?thread=5425669&latest=1#p63373684
2008-05-12T16:37:45
Message for the Moderator / BBC WebTeam
Hi, many thanks for letting me post links to my site which it seems many people are going over to. I was just going to ask if you can add a link to my forum after this forum is no longer.? Many people who did not know your board was closing will come back and wonder what happened and look for somewhere else to go.
Please can you drop me an e-mail and let me know if you can add a link to mine for a while?. Thank you ones more for your time. Kind Regards Jezwwww.onelifeboard.com
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2008-05-12T16:30:35
Re message boards closure
when does it close and where do we go now ?
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2008-05-12T16:30:35
Please be honest
Which is better, 'Length' or 'Girth'
http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/mbradio1/F2675891?thread=5432614&latest=1#p63371161
2008-05-12T15:56:31
Ok i got back with my bf a couple of months aga after a shor break up. things have never been better and i love him to bits! the thing is my head is driving me crazy! I know that i love him and that i wanna spend the rest of my life with him the thing is i want to start a family. I have always wanted to have kids young and now i have found the one i wanna be with i wanna start trying. I know he wants me to have his kids as we have spoken about it but i just dont think he wants them right now! I know it may sound mad but i feel as if my body is telling me im ready and everytime i see someone with childen in a little family i just want the same! its driving me mad! Has anyone ever felt like this before as it is all new to me and i just want to know im normal!
http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/mbradio1/F2675891?thread=5443080&latest=1#p63370576
2008-05-12T15:49:01
Please be honest
Talking sex now, which is better, 'Length' or 'Girth'?
http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/mbradio1/F2675891?thread=5432765&latest=1#p63364947
2008-05-12T14:37:52
Advice/opinions on situation needed please
Heyyy :]Not done this before, so bear with me :pNot sure how to start so I'll jump straight in at the deep end :pBasically, my boyfriend (of a year) has to move to Australia for about 2 years :[Family stuff etc. . . (Tis kinda messy so I won't go into it)He's going to finish his education while he's out there etc. . .I've had a very rough few years and got kinda messed up but he, well, pulled me back, basically.When we found out he'd have to move we had a discussion about what we wanted to do and both decided that we love each other and want to stay together.Fair enough.Except that when ever our friends mention it or we mention it to them they go;"ooof, talk about LONG distance!!! That's not going to work!":/He'll be coming back a few times, and I can go over and see him a few times, there's the phone, E-mail etc. . .And TBH we're pretty damned determined that if we have to do this to be together then we will.I just can't help being, scared/nervous - well, I guess you can imagine how I feel.I guess I'm just looking for some comfort or words of advice/wisdom.I'd really appreciate it :]EmilyxOx
http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/mbradio1/F2675891?thread=5439440&latest=1#p63360861
2008-05-12T13:37:43
The Surgery - a Tribute!
OK guys so today we had the news that the Surgery will be closing next week.I for one am going to really miss it and all the people I've 'met' on here!
It's certainly helped to pass on many a quiet hour at work and there have been some great threads from the downright ridiculous to the thought-provoking, not to mention the many colourful characters who have posted.And hopefully some of my comments have helped people out along the way.So I just thought I'd start a lighthearted thread for us to post our thoughts/memories about the times we've spent on here - the highlights, any threads that stick in your mind, the characters we've met, who we'll remember and what we'll miss the most.Now it's over to you lot!
http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/mbradio1/F2675891?thread=5421199&latest=1#p63360647
2008-05-12T13:34:52
Not getting the message?
Do you think there are some people who just will never get the message about certain things?I have a male friend who I have known for years and who has a big thing for me.
Ive always been quite clear that its never going to happen (im not one to mince my words after all) and I often tell him about my love life.
It seems though that even though he says he accepts what Im saying, that deep down he has this notion that one day he will change my mind.Im not prepared to end the friendship as we are great friends and I enjoy our time together so much.
I cant help feel as though im hurting him though and theres not much I can do about it.Is there a way to get it through to him once and for all or do I just have to accept that some people will hang onto things no matter what you say?
http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/mbradio1/F2675891?thread=5428158&latest=1#p63358274
2008-05-12T13:02:39
my nanna died a while ago. and now all these arguments ave kicked off about whos getting what of her possesions
http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/mbradio1/F2675891?thread=5441368&latest=1#p63350986
2008-05-12T11:29:54
I've made such a fool of myself!
There's a guy I really like at work.
We are really good friends, and we go out and get drunk a fair bit with another mate.
Anyway, we all went round to his house last week and had drinks.
My other mate left with her hubby a little earlier leaving me and my mate together.
I ended up declaring my undying love for him.
He told me he loved me but not like that, and gave me lots of hugs.
He said he would give me a proper kiss, but didn't think it was a good idea.
He also said he knew for ages that I liked him like that.
I'm so worried I might have broken our friendship.
I still love him, always will probably, but I know there's no hope.
Any hints, tips or advice would be gratefully appreciated!!!
http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/mbradio1/F2675891?thread=5437637&latest=1#p63349692
2008-05-12T11:13:17
need to talk to some one
hey i jus been feeling really down lately and im not sure why. i jus need to talk to some one. whneever i try to talk to my partner he never really listens or falls asleep on me or is just busy with summit else. i have been so stressed lately it is making me ill
http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/mbradio1/F2675891?thread=5365439&latest=1#p63344426
2008-05-12T10:03:44
Dont know what to do anymore :/
Hey, i guess i should dive right in?Me and ex-boyfriend were together for about 7 months, i was in love with him for half a year before even that.But he always lived hours away, and the distance kept ripping me up and i guess i started to realise the goodbyes werent going to get any easier.I thought it over for about a month, and realised i should end with with him.I called him up and said it was over. Not because I stopped loving him; but because it was just too hard.So it ended about 5 months ago.I have met somebody new and am/should be very happy with him, and we have been going out for about 3 months.But im so scared for my ex boyfriend, because he has a history of depression and has made it clear he is not over me and i feel i have led him on when i didnt mean to, i was just confused and missed him at points.I have tried really hard to get it to work as us being friends, but it doesnt seem to be working and now my current boyfriend is upset about the ammount i worry about my ex being okay.Im just so scared my ex will hurt himself and it will be my fault and i cant bear the idea of him being hurt. I just dont know how we can work. If we try saying goodbye, I end up being too scared and worried and contact him again, but if we stay mates it damages my current boyfriend and makes it too hard for my ex. I don't want to put my current boyfriend through any upset.I really dont know what to do, it feels like ive tried everything ):
http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/mbradio1/F2675891?thread=5440071&latest=1#p63343694
2008-05-12T09:52:29